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November
Visitation at Funeral Home
2:30 pm - 6:30 pm
Sunday, November 3, 2024
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
1225 Montauk Hwy
West Islip, New York, United States
Sunday
3
November
Funeral Service
3:30 pm
Sunday, November 3, 2024
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home
1225 Montauk Hwy
West Islip, New York, United States
(631) 661-5644
Cremation Private
Obituary
Natasha Simone Alexenko 1973 - 2024
Natasha Simone Alexenko, a fierce advocate for sexual assault survivors and founder of Natasha's Justice Project, passed away on October 31st, 2024, at the age of 51, after facing a rare and courageous battle with both ALS and MS. In her final act of generosity – one that epitomized her lifetime of helping others – she gave the gift of life to three people through organ donation.
Born on Long Island, New York, and raised in St. Catharines, Ontario, she returned to New York City in 1993 to study film at the New York Institute of Technology. That same year, she was sexually assaulted. Without her knowing, her rape kit sat untested in the NYC police department. Her kit was finally tested 10 years later.
Natasha refused to let her story end there. She vowed she would no longer be a statistic, and worked to change the system to be more responsive to survivors. As a survivor, she became a catalyst for change that would impact thousands of lives, she traveled all over the world to raise awareness. Her case led to one of the nation's first John Doe indictments based on DNA evidence, setting a precedent that would help countless other survivors. From this experience, she forged a path of advocacy that would become her legacy, founding Natasha's Justice Project (NJP) in 2011, a national nonprofit organization dedicated to eliminating the rape kit backlog across America.
Her memoir, "A Survivor's Journey: From Victim to Advocate," also gave voice to the voiceless and hope to those who felt forgotten by the justice system.
Through her work, Natasha with partners like the Joyful Heart Foundation and RAINN, helped transform the landscape of sexual assault investigations and inspired reform in rape kit evidence processing nationwide. She turned her personal tragedy into a movement for change, ensuring that other survivors would not have to wait a decade or more for justice.
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Natasha was the focus of the HBO documentary, Sex Crimes Unit and has been featured in the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, and other national and international publications. She has made guest appearances on broadcast and cable networks. Natasha shared her story at the historic 2015 joint press conference at which Vice President Joe Biden and New York County (Manhattan) District Attorney Cyrus Vance Jr. pledged a combined $80 million to help defray the cost and reduce the backlog of untested rape kits. Natasha also served as a consultant to Department of Justice Bureau of Justice Assistance's Sexual Assault Kit Initiative Grants (SAKI).
Those who knew Natasha remember her as far more than her advocacy work. She was a brilliant light who filled rooms with laughter. Natasha was a rare combination of warrior and nurturer. Yes, she was a survivor, an advocate, a game-changer, a champion. She was also so smart, funny, dedicated, loved, loving, dynamic, a chance taker. A lover of nature, animals (especially her dogs), gaming, Star Trek, laughing, and her friends and family. A sweet, lovely human who will be so missed beyond measure.
She possessed an extraordinary ability to transform pain into purpose, fear into courage, and strangers into friends. Her advocacy never overshadowed her humanity.
Natasha's impact on the world will continue to make a difference in many people's lives through her advocacy, her organization, and most importantly through the lives she touched personally.
She is survived by her incredibly loving husband Scott Sessa, Mom Nevart Mnatzaganian-Alexenko~ from a line of strong, resilient women, Sister Kathryn Ansley and Nephew Alexander Ansley Hoy.
In Lieu of Flowers
Please consider a donation to one of the following organizations
ALS United Greater New York
42 Broadway
Suite 1724
New York, NY 10004
Joyful Heart Foundation
320 7th Avenue #161
Brooklyn, NY 11215
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Tuesday, November 5, 2024
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Natasha was a guiding light for so many of us. As a friend, a mentor and a survivor she taught so many of us what real compassion, courage and dedication look like. My sincerest condolences to Scott, her family and friends. I will never forget the warmth of her smile and the genuine way she taught us all so much. She will be missed so much, but not forgotten. What she passed to us remains her legacy and the work that we do honors her memory as we strive to make the world a better place.
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Mark Guzman lit a candle
Monday, November 4, 2024
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Natasha was always a pleasure to talk to. So full of life and so inspirational. May the light of her life shine on and never dwindle!
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Sunday, November 3, 2024
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Dearest Nevart,
I'm so very saddened at the loss of your beloved daughter Natasha. She was one of the strongest & bravest people I've ever had the pleasure to know.
God & heaven gained a new angel
Please accept my deepest condolences.
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Saturday, November 2, 2024
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The world lost a hero today. I am so very sorry for your tremendous loss. Natasha is most certainly with the angels.
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Kristen Haines posted a condolence
Saturday, November 2, 2024
Natasha was so full of life. She made a huge impact on DNA testing and the CODIS system and most of all seeking justice for rape victims. I learned so much from her and always had a great time together at different fundraisers and meetings. We share a birthday too which was extra special. Some people are dealt an unimaginably tough hand and she was seemed to always rise and rise- and now finally she’s risen to the angels. Natasha, you will be deeply missed by so many that you touched. My deepest condolences to Natasha’s family.
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Stania Elysee posted a condolence
Friday, November 1, 2024
I’m going to miss you so so much my friend , thank you for all the laughs and love
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Paula Lynn Asadourian lit a candle
Friday, November 1, 2024
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Natasha:
My heart is broken right now, you were like my little sister growing up in St.Catharines and my parents adored you.
You are at peace right now sitting with God free of pain and suffering and will always be our Angel looking over us.
Gods speed and may you rest in Peace sweet girl.
Love Paula Asadourian
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