Contributions to the tribute of Patricia E. Fred

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Saturday, July 6, 2024

Patti, Tomorrow we say our last goodbyes to a beautiful woman who filled our hearts with joy. You will live in our hearts forever. I’ve known you all my life. My memories are of young girls and lemonade stands. Your sister telling us how great the Beatles were, and we should be listening to them. Flying kites in the street —or trying to! I am going to miss you my beautiful friend and neighbor.

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Tommy Calo posted a condolence

Saturday, July 6, 2024

Patty what can I say, we’ve known each other for overy 50 years, yes 50 years. The paddle ball courts at Bethpage Community Park, junior high school, high school, my Navy Days, can’t even count how many ski trips, then we became adults with families, Santa Village, Pennsylvania, Acra Manor ( the newlywed game) many many many klug parties, Christmas Parties at Lynn & my house, your unforgettable block parties and I can go on and on and on. I was in shock when Alan called me Saturday morning telling me you were gone. You are on of my oldest friends and I will miss you more than words can express. These memories are taken me over an hour too write because I breakdown and cry trying to write this. The only consolation is that I KNOW LYNN WAS ONE OF THE FIRST TO WELCOME YOU TO HEAVEN!!! And I know you went directly to Heaven because you truly were an angel here on earth. I love you and will miss you always & forever. Alan, Brianna and Carl I’m so sorry for your loss our loss!!!!

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Maryan Ferrari posted a condolence

Friday, July 5, 2024

Sending love and prayers deepest sympathy to you all

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Joan Burzumato posted a condolence

Sunday, June 30, 2024

Russ & I send our sincere condolences to Alan, his daughter, & son in law. It was our pleasure to have known Patti. She was a lovely lady. She welcomed us into her home for her holiday party. A fun night She escorted me to her craft table and we laughed at what I made. Good memories. May Alan & Family always have happy memories of her. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. May she Rest In Peace,

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Loretta Ricciuti Laney posted a condolence

Saturday, June 29, 2024

Where do you begin to share memories of one of the kindest, most selfless friend you've ever known? Patti always put others first, gave people the benefit of the doubt and was guided by a desire to make those she loved happy. Most of my memories of Patti involve laughter. There was the time in college when we drove Upstate in a snowstorm in her Camaro. Patti and I went south at a fork in the road. Needless to say, the ride took a lot longer than planned. We shared fake ID's in high school so we could go to Rum Bottoms and OBI. There were trips to the beach and many shopping trips to Sunrise Mall. Patti was with me when I had my first car accident and I was with her when she got ready for her first date with Alan. I remember how nervous she was and how beautiful she looked. Patti was one of those rare friends with whom you never fought. Oh, she could hold her own, but she was always kind and rational. She knew life was too short to hold grudges and she surrounded herself with good people. Patti and Alan took my daughter on vacation and drove through the night to come to my wedding. She, Alan and Breanna helped make our wedding special. Those were the types of things she would do without a second thought. As I write this, more memories come to mind. I will miss her so much. I pray she knows what a positive influence she had on my family. Alan said she is an Angel now, but I truly feel Patti was an angel on earth.

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Donna Conway uploaded photo(s)

Friday, June 28, 2024

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To my forever friend, I am heartbroken beyond words. I will miss your unconditional love and compassionate ways that have been rock solid throughout our friendship. The memories are immense, our coffee dates, long talks and rides will be cherished in my heart forever. I promise to be there for your beloved Alan and your shining bright star Breanna always. Please look over all of us, my beautiful angel. I love you always and forever.

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Megan Massaro uploaded photo(s)

Friday, June 28, 2024

I am so grateful to have known someone as kind, funny, and as caring as Patti. I will always remember sleepovers, family vacations (Ocean City, Upstate, South Carolina), doing arts and crafts, truck rides on the beach, Girl Scouts, playing Barbies on the front lawn, girl talk, and so many other special memories. She will forever hold a special place in my heart and I know she will watching over us for all future moments to come. Sending comfort and so much love to Breanna and Alan during this time. We love you.

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Lauren Valenti (Conway) uploaded photo(s)

Friday, June 28, 2024

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Words can’t express what Patti meant to my family and I. I will always treasure our memories together. From tea parties, playing with kittens/bunnies/chinchillas, polly pockets, glugg parties, block parties and so much more, she was incredibly special to me. I will never forget her calling me her “princess” when I was a little girl and how she continued to do the same as I grew up. I loved her so much and she made me feel so special. The Fred’s were there at every milestone in my life- birthdays, performances and more. Patti was truly family to me. She will be forever missed, but I know she will watching over us for all future moments- both big & small. Sending so much love and prayers to Breanna & Alan- We love you both so very much. Xoxo

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Karen Galluzzo Posted Jul 6, 2024 at 9:01 PM

I met Patti when we both worked for Grumman. She was the nicest person I had ever met and I was not sure anyone could be that happy. Well it turned out she was. We shared many days working together and many more memories enjoying glug parties and Labor Day celebrations. We will miss her very much. Love you all.

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