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Wednesday
30
November
Visitation at Funeral Home
3:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Wednesday, November 30, 2022
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
1225 Montauk Hwy
West Islip, New York, United States
Wednesday
30
November
Visitation at Funeral Home
7:00 pm - 9:30 pm
Wednesday, November 30, 2022
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
1225 Montauk Hwy
West Islip, New York, United States
Thursday
1
December
Funeral Mass
9:45 am
Thursday, December 1, 2022
St. Patrick's R.C. Church
9 North Clinton Avenue
Bay Shore, New York, United States
Private Cremation
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Denise Bafaty lit a candle
Monday, December 12, 2022
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I am so sorry to hear of Eileen's passing. I am glad to have had a chance to work with her prior to her retirement from Lockheed. She was very caring and dedicated worker and friend. My heartfelt condolences to her friends and family.
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John Piccirillo posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 30, 2022
A good friend and associate at Lockheed. Sorry to hear of her passing too soon. Eileen was full of life and a very good manager in the IT Department. I enjoyed all the times we spoke about issues and she allowed me to assist in several instances.
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Tony Pasquariello posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 29, 2022
So sorry to hear about your mom Chris. Many prayers and much love coming at you from your brothers in the Rat Pak. Hang in there...
Tony
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Mary Jane Hamilton posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 29, 2022
My favorite memories of Cousin Eileen are from our childhood. Christine (2 years older than I), Eileen (2 years younger) and I were constantly together, especially in the summer, so much so they were really more like sisters to me We had tons of fun swimming at Benjamin Beach in Bay Shore, going crabbing when Uncle Alex would take us out on his little boat, toasting marshmallows over a simple charcoal pit, picking blueberries in the woods, waiting for Tommy the ice cream man.... Of course we spent all holidays together, too) Simple, care-free days. Seems like yesterday. I will never stop missing dear Eileen and always keep her close at heart.
With love,
Mary Jane
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TrIcia Bendersky posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 29, 2022
Aunt Eileen was an incredibly strong woman, who fought incredibly hard these past few months, I believe even to the amazement of her own Dr’s. But most of all, I will remember her unconditional love and strong commitment to her family. It was unmatched! Her children, grandchildren, sister, nieces and nephews were very lucky to have been the recipients of her devotion.
Aunt Eileen was a great cook and had mastered her infamous broccoli and cheese recipe, so much so, that it became a staple at every holiday dinner. She baked the best carrot cake that I have ever tasted…but would never give up the recipe. She was our youngest daughter’s Godmother, and told us on numerous occasions, that she remembered exactly where she was when we asked her to take on that role, and how happy she was to do it.
We love you Aunt Eileen. We will forever treasure our memories of you, and we will continue to share them so that you stay alive in our hearts forever.
Love,
Tricia, Scot, Jenny, Katie, Amanda, Will and Joseph
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Lynn Parsons uploaded photo(s)
Monday, November 28, 2022
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Friends for years at Lockheed and a friendship that continued through an all too short retirement. I’ll remember our long talks at 6 am; conversations about our children, recipes, work angst, losing our Moms, and all the little things that made us close. I treasured Eileen’s friendship and how she took care of everyone. She was always the ring leader for good causes. We spent a weekend in Cocoa Beach together- just us girls until we rode the Waters and she took the top bunk ( thankfully) and I was on the bottom. We were as thick as thieves. Lunches every month at Applebees while we talked outside the office sharing confidences. I will deeply miss her. We supported each other and had each other’s back. Gone to soon my friend. We had more to do. Love you, Lynn
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Debbie Francoeur posted a condolence
Monday, November 28, 2022
My favorite Aunt Eileen memory is when Scot and Tricia were dating and her and I went on the Hobie Cat with them. Let’s just say Tricia and I just sat there and Scot and Aunt Eileen handled everything! When the wind shifted on the other side of the bridge we flipped and had to flip it back over multiple times…without her helping Scot and Alan rescuing Tricia and I we might still be out there! She was so impressive and I am happy to have that memory and to have been able to call her an “Aunt.”
My heart is broken for everyone. Love Debbie
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