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Friday
25
November
Visitation at Funeral Home
3:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Friday, November 25, 2022
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
1225 Montauk Hwy
West Islip, New York, United States
Friday
25
November
Visitation at Funeral Home
7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Friday, November 25, 2022
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
1225 Montauk Hwy
West Islip, New York, United States
Saturday
26
November
Funeral Mass
10:30 am
Saturday, November 26, 2022
Our Lady of Lourdes R.C. Church
455 Hunter Avenue
West Islip, New York, United States
Final Resting Place
St. Charles Cemetery
2015 Wellwood Avenue
Farmingdale, New York, United States
Obituary
Our beloved mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, cousin and friend Vera Lombardo, returned to her Heavenly Father unexpectedly but peacefully in her sleep on Saturday, November 19, 2022 at the age of 55. Vera was born in Brooklyn NY on February 10, 1967 to Victor and Margaret Scafuro (both deceased). She was raised in Lindenhurst NY along with her older siblings Leo (Donna Scafuro) and Annette (Bruce Wexler). She graduated high school and was married soon after to her husband Michael Lombardo. Together, they raised five beautiful children Erica (Tarique Rivers), Victoria (Anthony Keezer), Daniella, Michael and Gina. She leaves behind three grandchildren, Julianna, Jaiden, and Aria, and her nieces and nephews whom she loved and adored so much.
When Vera was diagnosed with MS in 2009, in the years to follow, she went through experiences in her life more tough than anyone should have to endure. In this, she showed those around her how strong and resilient she was despite it all. Each day that she persevered, she did so out of love for her family and friends. When she loved someone, she loved them with every ounce of her being. When we think of Vera, we will not only think of the good memories, but we will also be reminded that life is fragile, short, and should always be lived to the fullest.
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Sunday, December 25, 2022
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My Cousin Vera, Merry Christmas in heaven. I love you and miss you very much!
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Thursday, November 24, 2022
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Juliet, Chioma, Karis and Joy Posted Nov 24, 2022 at 11:41 AM
We will miss aunt Vera humor and laughter around the Thanksgiving table and every other holiday. We still can not wrap our head around the fact that you are gone. We will miss you terribly
We pray for comfort that can only come from God. Rest in perfect peace.
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Didi,
As I lay here writing, I find myself still lost for words. It feels like my world has been flipped upside down. We had such a special relationship that no one can ever can ever replace. We would FaceTime on the phone every single day, just so we could see each other. I just wish I could have had one more phone call with you so I could tell you how important and special you were to me. I remember our 3am drives to CVS, just to see what they had and stay up the rest of the night laughing and reminiscing. We made so many memories together and I will never forget them. You were so much more than an aunt to me, you were also my best friend. I am so happy you had the chance to meet Aaliyah Marie. She loved you so much. She would always get so excited when I would tell her we were going to call you. I love you so much my beautiful angel. Until we meet again…
Your mini me,
Nicolette Dora
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Wednesday, November 23, 2022
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Mommy, I love you so so much. I hate that you were taken away from us so soon and unexpectedly. I will think of you every minute of everyday. You were a great mom to all of your children, and an amazing grandmother. You wanted the best for us, and wanted us to be happy. I will think of all the good memories we’ve shared together. I wish I could’ve had more time with you Mommy, I really do. God wanted you to be with him that day, he didn’t want to see you in pain anymore. You are in heaven with Nanny, Grandpa Red, Grandma Anna, Poppy, and so many other loved ones!! This isn’t goodbye Mommy, this is a see you later. Until we meet again, my beautiful Angel! You’ll be in my heart, always.
Love your daughter,
Daniella
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To my beautiful God Mother,
I will forever hold you closest to my heart.
You gave so much to me; From the time I was born until the last time we spoke.
You always took my side, even when I was wrong.
My Didi, My Angel
I remember being the wild one in the family when us cousins were all kids, which frequently caused me to get in trouble with my parents or sent to my room. Whenever Didi was around, she'd be the one to break me out and say, "Ssshhhh come on!" That's how it always was, even as I hit my "adult" years. No matter what I called her with, she was on my side. She built me up constantly and made sure she told me how special I was to her before the end of every phone call. I hope she knew she was just as special and even more to me.
Forever my Didi you'll be.
Love Always,
Alexandra Marie Scafuro
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Mommy, you will forever be my everything. Every time I look into my daughters eyes I will see you, every time I see her smile while she’s sleeping I know you’re visiting her in her dreams. You were such a beautiful caring loving person inside and out. All you wanted was for everyone to be close, well you did it mom we are closer then ever. We are just missing our Matriarch. God does things in strange mysterious ways mom, I don’t know why he took you from all of us the way he did and when he did but I am grateful you spent the first week of Arias life with her. God you were so beautiful. I love you more than life itself Angel. Just like In the card you wrote me you are the Apple of my eye, Mommy you were all of ours. We showed it in strange ways. But we all love you so much so much. I pray to god your pain free up in Heaven, you are without any worries, you feel so loved and Happy but mostly that you’re with your Mom again (Nanny). I know how much you missed her and wanted her. God Gave you your wings Mommy fly High watch over your family. I promise I will take care of everyone.
Your First Born
Erica Christine
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Regina Muszynski posted a condolence
Sunday, November 20, 2022
To The Lombardo Family,
I am so sadden by the news of your mom (mama Lombardo) seems just like yesterday she was yelling at all us to get out of her room & to stop bothering her, hahaha I can still hear her laughing. I know it’s hard right now, but I know both our moms are reunited & happier then ever!! Keep the memories you have of her ALIVE in your hearts. She is going to be terribly missed. I love you all so so much!!
With Love,
Regina, Chris, Avianna & Gianna
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