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Sunday
20
November
Visitation at Funeral Home
4:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Sunday, November 20, 2022
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
200 East Main St
East Islip, New York, United States
Monday
21
November
Visitation at Funeral Home
2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Monday, November 21, 2022
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
200 East Main St
East Islip, New York, United States
Monday
21
November
Visitation at Funeral Home
6:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Monday, November 21, 2022
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
200 East Main St
East Islip, New York, United States
Private Cremation
Obituary
Albert J. Smith “AJ” passed away unexpectedly on 11/14/22. He will be deeply missed by all his family and friends.
He was born 11/16/53 to Albert Adam Smith and Margaret Angel Kunz Smith. He grew up in Seaford, NY, with his younger sister Barbara. He enjoyed playing football, wrestling, lacrosse and shooting BB guns in Tackapausha park. He graduated Seaford High School in 1971 where he was the captain of the football and wrestling teams - go Vikings! He attended Central Connecticut State College where he played football before returning to Long Island.
AJ spent 42 years working for the Town of Hempstead in various roles. He worked his way up to Executive Vice President of the CSEA local 880 union office. He also worked a second job for 30+ years officiating high school soccer, lacrosse, and football where his crew made it to the long island championship several times. He was a blue collar / manual labor guy and proud of it. He liked the line “I get paid to work out.”
He enjoyed coaching and watching his children play sports. He attended every game he could and drove many hours to do so. He bought “a piece of the rock” – 100 acres in Russell, NY. He liked to ride quads, shoot targets, cook smores, hike and build campfires while on vacation there. He loved playing with his 9 grandchildren and was a great babysitter. He always liked hosting big family get togethers that involved swimming in the pool and barbequing. He changed his own oil, fixed his own deck, installed his own fences, and mowed his own lawn even up until the day before he died. He was the first one to offer to help you move furniture. He was the life of the party, enjoyed making people happy and engaging them in animated political discourse.
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He was a loving husband, father and grandpa who was always ready, willing, and able to protect his family. He led by example and instilled a great work ethic in all his children which has led to their success today. He was blessed to have been married to his beautiful and loving wife Debbie for 42 years.
He is survived by his wife Debbie Smith; his 6 children Luke, Brian (Malissa), Colleen (Andrew), Marc (Thatiany), Eric (Alicia), Shawn (Elisa); his 9 grandchildren Juliana, Jillian and Anabella Fodor, Brian Jr. and Vienna Smith, Leo and Luca Smith, Neli and Cloe Smith; his sister Barbara DeLeon.
Visitation hours will be held on Sunday, 11/20, from 4pm to 8pm and Monday, 11/21, from 2pm to 4pm and 6pm to 8pm. Located at Chapey & Sons Funeral & Cremation Services – 200 E. Main St., East Islip, NY 11730.
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Monday, September 30, 2024
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Sending my deepest condolences and warmest regards to his loved ones. Wish my children and I had gotten more time with him. It's heart breaking to know that he's gone. He'll forever be in my heart.
RIP Big Guy ❤️
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elizabeth edwards posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, November 21, 2022
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I'm so very sorry for your loss. I don't understand exactly how you feel, but your family is my thoughts and prayers. By looking at the beautiful pictures it really shows he was a family man. May your family be there for each other during this difficult time. Revelation 21:4
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Mary Sireci lit a candle
Friday, November 18, 2022
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I can see why Mr. Smith's daughter, Colleen, turned out to be a happy and positive person by reading his obituary Colleen always spoke so highly of her father and family.. I am very sorry for the family's loss.
Mary Sireci
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Luke Smith uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, November 17, 2022
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Bob "HUTCH" Hutchinson lit a candle
Thursday, November 17, 2022
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AJ was a proud family man- i had the pleasure of coaching youth football and officiating Lacrosse with him for many years and of course a few cold beverages along the way. I can't recall AJ ever being in a bad mood and knowing he was on "your" side was always reassuring- no matter what he had your back!! God bless and protect his family during this time and may you find comfort in all the good times you shared.
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Jason Millard lit a candle
Wednesday, November 16, 2022
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Mr Smith was one of the most positive male role models our neighborhood had growing up. Not only did he tell his children he loved them, but he extended that to their close friends both when we were kids and adults. He always saw the positive outcome in a difficult situation and would point you in that direction. When nobody could tackle Luke on the front lawn and the kids protested the teams being unfair, he came outside and showed us how to tackle and said - worst case grab Luke’s big toe! Hard work, always help out others, smile, be positive are the attributes he modeled for us boys. Anytime you have the pleasure of being around the smith children, you see these qualities in them.
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Diane Geric lit a candle
Wednesday, November 16, 2022
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I send my deepest condolences to Al’s family. I would like to say I have been cutting his hair for over 20yrs n enjoyed doing it. He was always pleasant with a great big smile on his face. We had great conversation n laughed all the time. He talked highly of his family. He spoke of his job with the kids sports n loved doing it. I’m very sad that I won’t have the pleasure of seeing him every few weeks. He will definitely be miss take care my friend love ya Diane from Scissorsedge Barbershop
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Wednesday, November 16, 2022
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Nick LaMorte posted a symbolic gesture
Tuesday, November 15, 2022
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My sincere condolences and sympathy! AJ was a strong CSEA union member and dear friend. We shared some stories of our cabins in the Tug Hill area. AJ will be sorely missed by family & friends. May he Rest In Peace knowing his memory will live in the hearts and minds of everyone who was lucky enough to know him!
Nick LaMorte former LI CSEA President
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Brian Smith uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, November 15, 2022
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