Tribute Wall
Wednesday
22
September
Visitation at Funeral Home
3:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Wednesday, September 22, 2021
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
1225 Montauk Hwy
West Islip, New York, United States
Wednesday
22
September
Visitation at Funeral Home
7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Wednesday, September 22, 2021
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
1225 Montauk Hwy
West Islip, New York, United States
Thursday
23
September
Funeral Mass
10:00 am
Thursday, September 23, 2021
St. Patrick's R.C. Church
9 North Clinton Avenue
Bay Shore, New York, United States
Obituary
Jane Courtien, a longtime resident of Brightwaters, passed away on Sunday, September 19th at the age of 69 years young. She was preceded in death by her loving husband, James Courtien of 22 years. Jane was born in Brooklyn on December 23, 1951, to the parents of Patrick Lawlor and Mary Lawlor. Jane was a former teacher, art therapist, painter, published author, loving wife, devoted mother, and a dear friend to all who knew her. On November 7th, 1981, she was married to her best friend, James Courtien. Jane was loved by many and will be greatly missed. She is survived by her daughter, Mary Clare McGroary, and her husband Daniel McGroary. She is also survived by her two sisters, Eileen Leonard and Mary Anne May as well as her brothers, Timothy Lawlor, Billy Lawlor, and Christopher Lawlor. She is preceded in death by her sister, Patricia Lawlor.
"You will see in time that all family life has its ups and downs but love is the heart of what makes a family a family. We are very fortunate because we have that main ingredient."
Jane T. Courtien, 1987
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Jane-your death has set you free from all the worry of when your pain would become unbearable. You knew the end was near-you set me free from the torture of watching you suffer. We shared your dreams, whispered your fears when we held each other for comfort. Our happy years were another blessed moment in your storied dynamic life.
My love follows you across what now divides us. We are all still connected though we be apart.
My grief will never end.
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Deborah Castelli lit a candle
Wednesday, September 22, 2021
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Farewell dear friend. Rest in our dear Lords arms until we meet again.
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Pammy Castelli lit a candle
Wednesday, September 22, 2021
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Dear Jane:
You will be missed! I will always remember your gentle manner even when Mommy was upset with me as a young child and you would gently speak to me coming from a second Mom and all I could think was well I can't be in that much trouble Jane didn't raise her voice (come to find out a decade later at 20) Jane never raised her voice! Jane spoke and presented herself with such class you would think she was from another era! Her intelligence was on another level far beyond most and her beauty shown so bright from the inside/out!!
Jane, I was raised with you in my life as you were another Aunt of mine as you will always be a sister from a different mother to Mommy (Debbie Castelli). We spent countless Holidays together and I must say when our Holiday table got a little to loud and I felt like noone could hear each other I knew I could sit by Jane and she would listen to my every word. ❤️
Let us all take peace in knowing that this beautiful angel is now with her soulmate James!!
Mary Claire I am so sorry, please take comfort in knowing as your Mom would have been front and center for me, you can count on Debbie and Pete to want to be all the same for you.
However, as sure as the sun rises Your Mom will Be With You Always. I bet you will always feel her like a gentle comforting breeze that touches your soul and brings peace and happiness because that is your Mom (comfort for the soul for everyone lucky enough to be touched and loved by her).
Thank you Jane for being a special best friend Family By Amazing Choice to Mommy and all the Castelli's!!
One day all the girls will meet again in Body Awarness!! Mary Claire let's just hope in years to come, Your Mom, my Mom and Eileen do not make us work out in heaven.
With my warmest regards and memories to last a lifetime!
Love always and forever Jane!!
Pammy Castelli
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Jennifer Calvo posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 21, 2021
Mary Clare, So sorry for your loss. She is gone too soon. Now in Gods loving arms.
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Lisa Dumagan lit a candle
Tuesday, September 21, 2021
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Mary Clare, I am so sad to hear about the passing of your Mom. She was an impeccable Mom, an amazing person and a very kind friend. May she Rest In Peace!
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Lois Donnelly posted a condolence
Monday, September 20, 2021
I am so saddened to know that you were gone Janie. You were my sweetest friend we’ve known each other forever. Mary Claire I am so sad that you lost your mom. And I’m thinking of you. Lov and hugs Lois
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Cynthia Laurino lit a candle
Monday, September 20, 2021
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You were an amazing mother and a beautiful person both inside and out. You will be missed by so many and remembered as someone who lived their life with unconditional love, integrity, and honesty. Rest In Peace, Jane.
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Sunday, September 19, 2021
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