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MODICA - Marion, of Brightwaters, NY and Jupiter Island, FL on July 22, 2020 at the age of 94. Beloved wife of the late Louis J. Modica for 70 years. Devoted mother of Charles R. Modica, JD; J. Lorraine Modica Schmidt, JD; and John M. Modica, MD. Treasured mother-in-law of Lisa and Anthony. Adored grandmother of eight and great-grandmother of six. Dearest sister of the late Josephine Lagana. She was first a devoted mother, who encouraged her children to work hard and excel. And when they did, they were her source of pride and joy. She led a full, active life, and especially enjoyed the great outdoors. She was an avid and competitive tennis player, member of Southward Ho Country Club, ardent boater and member of Bay Shore Yacht Club. She loved walking around Brightwaters lakes, bicycling, swimming, dancing, traveling, going to theater, outdoor concerts, playing Bridge and Mahjong, and in early years, enjoyed waterskiing, downhill and cross-country skiing. She did it all. And after God had blessed her in so many ways throughout her life, she gave back to the community that had given her so much, with her philanthropy to the Bay Shore High School Scholarship fund, Great South Bay YMCA, and St Patrick’s church, where the Marion Modica Early Childhood Learning Center was established. Her philanthropy continued near her FL winter residence, with her generous support of the Jupiter Maltz Theatre, Joe Namath Foundation, Jupiter Inlet Lighthouse & Museum, and many other worthwhile causes. Arrangements entrusted to The Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons East Islip Funeral Home. In light of current events, services were held privately. Condolences may be shared with the family at www.chapeyfamily.com
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Linda Mylott posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 2, 2020
Mrs. Modica was the matriarch of a loving, kind, successful and fun-loving family. I was in her company several times and always enjoyed it. I saw her playing tennis at Brookwood Hall in East Islip in the cold weather, which I know she liked. She will be greatly missed by her friends and entire family.
Our sincere condolences,
Linda and Bob Mylott
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Peggy and Gordy Stearns posted a condolence
Sunday, August 23, 2020
Dear Lorraine, Tony and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We know you will miss all the wonderful family times you enjoyed, but we are grateful you were able to be with your mother to comfort her before she passed. What a full and rich life she lived! We loved that we were able to meet her and share her enthusiasm for life and music and dance.
You are in our hearts.
Love,
Peggy and Gordy Stearns
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Carmine D Morabito posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 19, 2020
Dear Charles and family,
It is with a heavy heart that we offer our sincerest condolences to you after learning of the passing of your mother, Marion, who was a long-time friend and dear neighbor to us. May she rest in peace. She was such a wonderful and generous person, who always shined a smile on all those around her. She will always be remembered by us.
With deepest sympathy,
Carmine & Veronica Morabito and family
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Donna and Todd Dellomo posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 18, 2020
Dear Modica family,
Todd and I were boat neighbors of your parents at Lighthouse marina. We truly enjoyed the stories your parents shared with us, especially your mom. Her love for her family always shined through in those conversations. We are sorry about your loss and wanted to let you know our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
God bless.
Donn and Todd Dellomo
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Michael Pesola posted a condolence
Monday, August 17, 2020
Charlie and family your mom was and will always be the greatest and always have a place in my heart for your mom now she Rest In Peace with your dad and God.May God Bless your mom
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Esther Zaretsky posted a condolence
Monday, August 17, 2020
Richard remembers meeting Marion and having dinner at Number 4 and sleeping over at their home in 1972 when he visited her and Lou and Charlie in Brightwaters. We've shared some amazing times with her since those days, in New York, in Grenada and in Florida. She always made us feel part of her family. She had a zest for living, playing tennis, parties, boating with the cruiser. We extend our heartfelt condolences to the entire Modica family and know your beloved matriarch will be sorely missed. We are so sorry for your loss and may her memory be a blessing. With sympathy, Esther and Richard Zaretsky
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Paul Sidoti posted a condolence
Sunday, August 16, 2020
John, Marion, Charlie and the rest of the Family, I was very sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. Growing up, your mom and dad always made me feel as if I was part of the family. I know she will be deeply missed.
So sorry for your loss
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Richard Rosener posted a condolence
Sunday, August 16, 2020
Charlie and the rest of the Modica Family, I was very sorry to hear of you mohter's passing. I was a long time resident of Bay Shore and never realized all the wonderful ways she supported the community.
Stay safe, stay well.
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Sunday, August 16, 2020
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Karen Trotta Ostermann posted a condolence
Sunday, August 16, 2020
Charlie, So sorry to hear about your Mother. She sounded like an awesome lady. Wishing you peace. Karen
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