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Sunday
5
January
Visitation at Funeral Home
2:00 pm - 4:30 pm
Sunday, January 5, 2020
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
200 East Main St
East Islip, New York, United States
Sunday
5
January
Visitation at Funeral Home
7:00 pm - 9:30 pm
Sunday, January 5, 2020
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
200 East Main St
East Islip, New York, United States
Sunday
5
January
Funeral Service
8:00 pm
Sunday, January 5, 2020
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons
200 East Main St
East Islip, New York, United States
Private Cremation
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Linda posted a symbolic gesture
Friday, February 14, 2020
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Dad, thinking of you on Valentines Day and wishing you were here. Love and miss you so much. I hope that you are doing okay. Today is Uncle Walter's birthday, hope there is a big party going on up there. You will be in my heart forever... I will always love you, and miss you every day for the rest of my life. love always, Linda xoxoxo
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stewpass92@optonline.net lit a candle
Sunday, February 9, 2020
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Dad, thinking of you all the time. I don't want to believe that you are gone.
Hope you are okay.
Miss you so much :(((.
love, Linda xoxoxo
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Olga Lancer lit a candle
Saturday, February 8, 2020
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Well Pop, it's a little over a month that you left us. I know you're still here watching over us. If you can please give Rob some kind of sign that you're ok. He really needs it. He misses you so much, ( we all do) and I know if you can do that it would help him. As for now Pop, rest in peace. Say hi to my Dad for me. Love ya.
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Jeanine lit a candle
Saturday, January 25, 2020
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I miss you so much. I know you’re watching over me. Love you Dad
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Linda Stewart-Passantino posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, January 20, 2020
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I love all the photos and messages
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Jeanine uploaded photo(s)
Monday, January 20, 2020
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Wearing our matching Grinch attire.
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Jeanine lit a candle
Monday, January 20, 2020
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A piece of my heart is gone. A love like no other is the love between a father and daughter. So many great memories. I miss you so much dad. I wasn’t ready to let you go.
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Linda lit a candle
Saturday, January 18, 2020
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Love you Dad xoxoxo... wish you were here
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Rob lit a candle
Saturday, January 18, 2020
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Thinking of you!
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Rob Lancer uploaded photo(s)
Friday, January 17, 2020
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This has been the hardest thing I have ever faced! I am devastated, and utterly heartbroken, that you are not here to talk with me on the phone, like we did on a regular basis!It was nice to hear you say bye bye, at the end of each call I just want to thank you, for always being there for me! I just wanted to let you know, that you are my best friend! Words were never spoken, but I always knew you were proud of me! When I first met olga, now my wife, she showed me how important family was! We would come out to your house for the weekends, played dominoes, go for dinner, watch t.v together! It was because of her that we became so close! I will miss everything that we did together, its too much to list! I love you so much!! I want to say that, the last twenty five years of your life, has been the best in my life!! I will miss the times when we leave your house, You and mom would stand outside waving goodbye, the past several times I had to fight back the tears, as I drove away!! I will let you rest for now, because you need it! You can come visit me in my dreams, ANYTIME!!! YOU are the best DAD in the world! I WILL MISS YOU!!!
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Rob Lancer uploaded photo(s)
Friday, January 17, 2020
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This is dad on one of our great motorcycle trips! We always had a blast! I am missing you all the time dad!
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Robert Lancer uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, January 16, 2020
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Father...Friend...Confidant
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Robert Lancer lit a candle
Thursday, January 16, 2020
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Robert Lancer uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, January 16, 2020
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Robert Lancer uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, January 16, 2020
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BEST FRIENDS FOREVER
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Jeanine uploaded photo(s)
Monday, January 13, 2020
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Jeanine lit a candle
Monday, January 13, 2020
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My heart is broken and heavy.
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Miranda uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, January 5, 2020
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I can’t believe I’m sitting here writing this right now because to me, I always thought you’d be with us physically forever. Anyone who knew you was blessed to have known such a beautiful soul, and a good hearted person. Anyone who was loved by you was blessed to be loved by such a strong, funny, selfless person. You really made an imprint on what a family man was and should be and the light that you had inside of you will live on forever. You are going to be missed more than words could ever say and I will keep my memories that I had with you, with me for the rest of my life. Thank you for all the laughs, and for always closing the distance and making it non-existent after time apart. Your life was one for the books and you will never be forgotten.
With love always,
Miranda
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Chris lit a candle
Sunday, January 5, 2020
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Chris uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, January 5, 2020
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To my best friend/hero,I'm typing this with my eyes watering up because you're not (physically) with us anymore but I know u will always be with is no matter what! I could never forget ANY of our motorcycle trip,trips and getaways to the trailer or just hanging at the house and those memories will live on forever until we meet again I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH ALREADY THAT WORDS CANT EVEN DESCRIBE but it's never goodbye it's just see you later and I also must say that u always amazed me at how tough you were all along but even till the point that we had to let you go you still had me dumbfounded and amazed at just how tough you really were all the way through I LOVE YOU SO MUCH find yourself a nice windy road and ride on and we will all b right there with you!!
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Linda Stewart-Passantino lit a candle
Saturday, January 4, 2020
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Linda Stewart-Passantino uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, January 4, 2020
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Dad, I have always looked up to you with pride and adoration. You are my mentor, and my hero. Words cannot express what you mean to me. I am devastated by the loss of you, I can only imagine how hard it will be to go on without you. You will always be in my heart. As I look through photos of you, I am smiling through my tears. So many happy memories. I am thankful that the last week of your life was a happy one. I am so glad that we decided to spend New Year's Eve with you at your house... who knew what you would be going through just a day later. I am so sorry for what you went through, it was tragic. I am glad that you knew we were all there with you, praying for you. I knew you kept fighting to the end. You are forever in my heart, my mind, my soul. Our bond will never be broken. I love you now, will love you forever, until we meet again. Your loving daughter, Linda xoxoxo
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Barbara Palmieri posted a symbolic gesture
Saturday, January 4, 2020
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I had the great pleasure of the Lancer household being my home away from home for many years as a young girl. Jeanine and I were always either at her house or mine. I always felt welcome and safe. I will always hold memories of a family who showed me kindness , knew how to laugh and certainly to love. To Mrs. Lancer , Linda, Laureen, Jeanine and Robert I thank you and I wish you and the family peace and the ability to keep all the wonderful memories of your husband and Dad alive cause he was one if a kind ! My heart is with you all !
Barbara Palmieri (klein)
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llancer@mindspring.com posted a condolence
Saturday, January 4, 2020
To the best father in the world.
I dont know how i will go on without you there in my everyday life, however i know you will live on in me forever.
My heart is broken and the pain in my heart is just about unbearable.
I will be strong for Mom, she will always be taken care of.
I am so glad that we ended all our phone calls with I Love you so i am sure you know I love you.
Thank you for everything . You were a great son, a great husband, a great father, and a great grandfather.
The family will not be the same without you, but I will do my best to keep us together as you wanted.
Safe Ride Dad! Love you forever.
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Olga Lancer uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, January 4, 2020
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Pop, you were the best Father-in-law I could have ever asked for. I never considered you an in-law. You took over for my Dad 16 yrs ago. I love you and miss you so much. Rest in peace, Pop. All my love, Olga
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Mary Maggio 11367 posted a condolence
Saturday, January 4, 2020
It was a pleasure knowing you. Rest in peace my friend.
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Kathleen Butler posted a condolence
Saturday, January 4, 2020
What I remember of him is how down to earth he was, and get my Dad to talk up a storm, since mine stammered when he talked. Heaven has a new angel.
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The family of Robert H. Lancer uploaded a photo
Saturday, January 4, 2020
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Please wait
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Linda Stewart-Passantino uploaded photo(s)
Friday, January 3, 2020
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