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Sunday
24
November
Visitation at Funeral Home
2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Sunday, November 24, 2019
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
1225 Montauk Hwy
West Islip, New York, United States
Sunday
24
November
Visitation at Funeral Home
7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Sunday, November 24, 2019
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
1225 Montauk Hwy
West Islip, New York, United States
Monday
25
November
Final Resting Place
Monday, November 25, 2019
Evergreen Cemetery
Bushick Avenue & Conway Street
Brooklyn, New York, United States
Monday
25
November
Funeral Mass
9:30 am
Monday, November 25, 2019
Our Lady of Lourdes R.C. Church
455 Hunter Avenue
West Islip, New York, United States
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Grace (Manchise) Couture posted a symbolic gesture
Saturday, November 23, 2019
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My family and our unique community of Catholic families were blessed beyond measure to call Fr. Pat our family priest, and he was that and so much more, to such an extent that he became an honorary uncle we simply referred to as Uncle Pat, and his parents were simply Grandma Pearl and Grandpa Pat. Uncle Pat was an especially gifted priest - he was warm, funny, a unique homilist and story teller, a singer of songs (my strongest memory is Shenandoah), a confidant, a spiritual guide, a foodie, and a conversationalist. From him I received the sacraments of First Holy Communion, Reconciliation, and Holy Matrimony. I don’t know how it happened that when I was about 7 and my little sister 5, he took us out for breakfast and to a day at the circus. As we sat at the diner’s bar for breakfast the waiter remarked, “how lucky are you girls that your father is taking you to the circus?” Which then led Uncle Pat to whisper to the two of us “it’s a good thing he doesn’t know I’m his ‘father’ too or I’d have to take him with us!” I don’t know why I remember that one instance so vividly but I do know It’s just one of hundreds of moments when Uncle Pat made me laugh, and feel loved. I am saddened that I didn’t get to say goodbye and that I’ll never see him again in this life, but I am awed just imagining the reception he received in heaven, as a good and faithful priest. Until we meet again Uncle Pat, thank you for your special influence in my life, I will miss you so much.
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Angela Gross posted a condolence
Friday, November 22, 2019
With a heavy heart we mourn the loss of our dear friend & spiritual guide for so many years. He has shared with us all the fun times and the sad times and we are so grateful for the gift of him in our lives. He will remain with us forever in our hearts. Sincere condolences to John Patricia & Family. Angela Gross & Family
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Carmela Luongo posted a condolence
Friday, November 22, 2019
I understand and I am sorry for your loss. Fr. Pat and I were friends for 30 years. He will be remembered with love and gratitude for enriching my life.
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Lisa Maniaci uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, November 21, 2019
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So sorry to hear the news of Father Pat’s passing. He played a major role in 2 of the biggest milestones in my life; my First Holy Communion and my wedding. We will remember him as the member of our party of 13 who we lost in California (briefly), the Priest who lived in the giant retreat house in Sag Harbor with the awesome skateboard hill, and the constant in the lives of a community of families who just naturally included him in holidays, vacations, birthdays and anniversaries because he WAS family. Father Pat will be remembered fondly, and with respect and admiration, for being able to put up with about 10 families’ worth of kids for an entire weekend, every time we visited, without yelling...well, maybe a little yelling, but it was warranted. As big as the retreat house was, the poor guy had no peace while we were there. Yet he greeted us with a smile and sang the weird “rabbit fufu” song every time it was requested. I’m sorry for those who remember that song, it’s now stuck in your head. Father Pat’s last joke on us. He loved a good joke.
Rest In Peace Father Pat. We will miss you.
Lisa (Leonardi) Maniaci
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JeanAnne Dropp lit a candle
Thursday, November 21, 2019
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Fr. Patsy Amabile
Our uncle the priest. The Jewish kid on the block that grew up to be a priest. The son of one of my favorite women ever. I am one of the “Day After Christmas People,” but Uncle Pat was so much more than just our uncle the priest, and we saw him more than just the day after Christmas. When he was in the seminary, he would come home to Brooklyn, leave his parents and drop by our house. It was always exciting, even though us kids would have to go to bed on school nights. Even after his ordination, he would still come and visit us frequently. The late night visits were always exciting!
But it was more than the late night visits that mean so much today. Life in our house was always exciting, and Uncle Pat was often a soothing presence. He was there for births, deaths, and every occasion in between. And he would not leave until the cake was served, even if he had to serve it himself! Through it all, Uncle Pat was a calming presence. He knew what questions to ask, and he knew the big picture was more important than whatever was bothering us at any given time.
He brokered disagreements, and often managed to get our family together through times of deep divides. He did this by pointing out the big picture, and encouraging empathy on all sides. We are the family we are today in no small part due to Uncle Pat and his influence. He has made us both a better family, and a family of better people. We are better for having had him in our lives. Uncle Pat, you are sorely missed. Give all the angels that have gone before a big hug from us, and may you rest in peace. JeanAnne O’Rourke Dropp, from the “Day After Christmas Family”
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Jim Miles lit a candle
Thursday, November 21, 2019
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It was my family’s great fortune to meet Fr. Pat when he first arrived at St. Edward’s parish in Pine Hill, NJ. We were stunned and deeply saddened last evening when we learned of his passing. Fr. was part of our circle of parish friends leading our Pre Cana team with gentle guidance and joining us socially including a couple of group cruises. He was a joy to be with along with Pearl who joined us on a cruise that is a forever memory for all who were part of that trip. I can attest to Fr’s sharp business mind and ability having had the pleasure of working with him on the parish finance committee. Upon reviewing a report card, he convinced one of our sons that the results deserved negotiation for better than a typical reward. I will forever be grateful for his conversation and counsel when sought, he was never too busy and having chatted with him just last month it is still difficult to believe that he is no longer with us. Fr. Pat was without question the best homilist that I ever heard and after his transfer to Sacred Heart in Vineland, our family made an annual pilgrimage to share in his Easter Vigil. A wonderful memory will always be his participation in our son’s combined faith wedding ceremony. Fr. Pat and the church pastor both spoke and both knew our son and daughter-in-law personally. However, it was Fr. Pat’s homily that was the talk in the reception line with one man jokingly asking for a transfer card. For those who were blessed to have their lives touched by Fr. Pat, we have a new advocate in a higher place.
Jim, Mary Ann, Jimmy and Sean Miles
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Mike and Anne Leonardi posted a condolence
Thursday, November 21, 2019
With sorrowful hearts we mourn the passing of Father Pat, our dear friend and spiritual guide. He will always be a part of the fabric of our lives. Deepest sympathy to John, Patricia and their family. Love, Mike and Anne
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Scott Rodin posted a condolence
Thursday, November 21, 2019
Pat was a gentle funny wonderful person. Every minute in his presence was a gift. He was also a great cook and I have the best memories of Christmas Day at his mothers apartment. He will never be forgotten and will always be loved.
Scott Rodin
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Celestine Pollock posted a condolence
Thursday, November 21, 2019
Fr. Pat was a dear friend to our family. He was our beloved Pastor at Sacred Heart Church in Vineland. I had the pleasure of working with him at the Rectory in Vineland. He was a compassionate person always reaching out to help parishioners and anyone that needed help. My family was blessed to have him officiate at our daughter's wedding and grandchildren's Baptisms. He worked with my husband and me on the parish Pre Cana Team. We were shocked to learn of his passing as I just spoke to him about a month ago. We are hoping to say goodbye in person, but if we can't please know that our prayers, love, and thoughts are with you. He is in heaven watching over all of us. He will be missed by the many people whose lives he touched over the years. Love Celestine & RickPollock
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Pat Provnick posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 20, 2019
John,
I am so sorry for our loss. You and your family must be so devastated. I was shocked tonite when I heard. I had just spoken to him about a week ago. He was such a dear friend. I am consoled by the fact that we have another guardian angel to watch over us. I hope to be able to say good bye until we meet again in person.
God bless you and your family!
Love,
Pat
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