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Wednesday
3
April
Visitation at Funeral Home
3:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Wednesday, April 3, 2019
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
1225 Montauk Hwy
West Islip, New York, United States
Wednesday
3
April
Visitation at Funeral Home
7:00 pm - 9:30 pm
Wednesday, April 3, 2019
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
1225 Montauk Hwy
West Islip, New York, United States
Private Cremation
Obituary
Desthers, Joseph Thomas, Sr., of North Babylon, LI on April 1, 2019. Beloved husband of the late Jane Ann Desthers. Devoted father of Maryjane (Thomas) Fanizzi, Joseph Thomas (Amy) Desthers, Jr., Michael Joseph Desthers, Bernadette Terese (Nicholas) Fortunato, Regina Marie (Christopher) Rykert and John Joseph (Kimberly) Desthers. Cherished grandfather of Clare, Katharine, Nicholas, Marianna, Christopher, Sarah, Amanda, Mary and Abigail Jane. Predeceased by his twin sister Josephine Abbruzzese. Joseph was a proud veteran of the United States Marine Corps and was one of the few "Frozen Chosin." Joseph was a retired Chief of the Rescue Battalion, FDNY. Reposing at The Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons West Islip Funeral Home, 1225 Montauk Hwy. (1/4 mile west of the Robert Moses Cswy.). Visitation Wednesday, 3:00 PM until 5:00 PM and 7:00 PM until 9:30 PM. Cremation to be held privately.
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Another thanksgiving without you Mom misses you terribly I hope your shining down on mom and watching over our family this year Happy thanksgiving in heaven we love and miss you and grandma so much
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Thinking of you today <3 love you pops
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Wednesday, April 1, 2020
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I miss you pop I love you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Mary lit a candle
Wednesday, October 9, 2019
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Love you pop I bet Nannie is taking good care of you. Love. Mary rykert
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katharine fanizzi uploaded photo(s)
Monday, April 8, 2019
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katharine fanizzi posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, April 8, 2019
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Grandpa
I hope that you are flying with the angels. I love you pops <3
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katharine fanizzi lit a candle
Monday, April 8, 2019
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Grandpa
Thank you for the years of memories we shared. Thank you for your sacrifice as a world war vet. Thank you for all the lives you saved as a firefighter. Your job is done now you rest with grandma. We will take it from here.
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Alex Kaplan posted a condolence
Friday, April 5, 2019
I knew Joe as Captain of Rescue 4 where I was an Auxiliary Firefighter. He was a wonderful man and a good friend. Deepest condolences to the family and I shall pray for Joe. I know he is with his God and fellow members of the FDNY who have gone before him.
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Thursday, April 4, 2019
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Mary McMahon lit a candle
Wednesday, April 3, 2019
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My thoughts and prayers for each of you.
May you be comforted by your
memories and may your dad be at peace
Mary
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Trish Sparacio lit a candle
Wednesday, April 3, 2019
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Trish Sparacio posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 3, 2019
My prayers and thoughts are with all of you.
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John Sadlier lit a candle
Wednesday, April 3, 2019
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God Bless, Uncle Joe
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Tuesday, April 2, 2019
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A donation was made in honor of Joseph Desthers to the Wounded Warrior Project .
Love Bill, Gina and Family
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Tuesday, April 2, 2019
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